Over a decade ago,  my husband and I were preparing to enter into the world of foster care and adoption.  Bright eyed and bushy tailed, we knew very little of what to expect, but we were excited and hopeful. To say we were eager is quite an understatement. We took the very best notes in […]

“If it doesn’t hurt when they leave, then you’re doing it wrong.” Well, if that’s true, then I guess you could say all of us at Bithiah’s are doing it right. Each time a little one leaves, we hurt, but this time, it HURT. We tried to find positives in the move, put on a […]

The holidays (especially at Bithiah’s) are a time of celebration, gifts, surprises, and special memories. Until it isn’t. For many children, the holidays can be a time of stress, triggers, and overall sadness. Bithiah’s is no exception. Trauma does not discriminate and it certainly doesn’t take a break for the holidays. With the holidays quickly […]

If there is one word that is repeated over and over at Bithiah’s House, it’s Connection.  Everything we do is centered around Connection.  We connect with the kids while eating breakfast, we connect during car rides, we even connect before correcting their behavior.  I would venture to say that Connection is one of the main […]

A year and a half. 14 little loves. Countless diaper changes, endless giggles, dance parties, movie nights, Disneyland trips, Birthdays celebrated, goodbyes said, tears shed, appointments upon appointments and visits. So many visits. Parent visits, sibling visits, Social Worker visits, Therapist visits, Nurse visits, and even Santa came to visit. The current little ones have […]

Our first little love left Bithiah’s a couple of weeks ago.  She went to a new (maybe forever) family.  It was good.  It was so sad.  Many tears were shed as our staff said their goodbyes.  Her things were packed, her scrapbook finished, her new mommy got all the information (and then some!) she would […]